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Dating for 4 years but can’t stop thinking about someone else

I am 27 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for four years. We have a great relationship and he treats me great but there are a few things that still bother me. We are at the point where he is talking about moving in together and a possible engagement in the next year.

Recently, I have been in touch with someone I grew up with in my neighborhood. We never had a serious relationship but I grew up with him and always had a crush on him. I had a crush on him in grade school, we were somewhat together in high school - I had another serious boyfriend at the time so it didn't work out and then we tried to date in college but we were very immature and were too involved in other social activities to have a serious relationship. Ithink about this guy I grew up with all of the time. We haven't been in touch lately because I feel like that is unfair to my current boyfriend. Breaking up would break both of our hearts and I am not sure if that is the best option or not - I also don't want to have any regrets with not trying things with the guy I grew up with. Looking for advice, please help!

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