So I have been seeing this guy for about a month...... We have known each other for at least 20 years......we do not have sex..... He said He doesn't associate sex with people he cares about..... He said he always had sex with women that were one night stands or whatever and it doesn't mean anything to him. He says he is seriously attracted to me but he can't keep it hard or even get hard when were together.
He said he associated love with hanging out and being together. We really have a lot of laughs together, and I enjoy his company and he always wants to get together....We've sleep in the same bed, no sex. We kiss, we cuddle, all of that is great....... but nothing going on down there. I don't even feel comfortable bringing it up with him..... I do not want to pressure him and make it worse. Were 39 and 40 years old.