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“Relationship status: (/) It’s complicated”

I met a girl online in August of last year and we became friends. A couple of months later I started to have feelings for her. She was there for me when my father was in the hospital and we became closer. In early November I told her I had feelings for her and she told me she liked me too afterwards our messages became more flirty and showed more romantic interest.

In early December I found out that one of the guys we hung out with who I thought she was just friends with was her boyfriend. It's kind of complicated – she never said he was her boyfriend but I knew he liked her but didn't know she liked him or that they were together – I know I'm a bad friend for not knowing that.

After I found out and confronted her, I said goodbye and walked away – well, tried to walk away. My father ended up in the hospital again in mid December and she found out and messaged me she messaged me again on new years and again on my birthday and I messaged her on her birthday –they are both in March. We have kind of started to talk again but I don't know what to do I don't want to get hurt again because I still have feelings for her.

She is still with her boyfriend as far as I know but she still shows interest in me. I have shared some of the things that she said and did with some other people and they have all said the she definitely showed signs of interest and she obviously wouldn't let me leave. I just don't know what to do. I would like to be just friends with her but my feelings make it too hard and I know I'll end up leading myself on and get hurt again. What should I do?

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