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“I’ve got feelings for someone else”

I’ve been with my bf for 9 years now and I’ve got feelings for someone else and I don’t know what to do. I’ve had feelings for this guy for 8 months and they're literally just growing stronger, and he’s made it clear that he’s got feelings for me too. Over the years I’ve been made to feel unloved from my other half and I think the more times it’s happened the more I’ve like given up and it’s just come to the point where I don’t know if I can work on it because I’m scared in case he makes me to feel unloved again! And it’s worse because my bf has shown me that he can love me since all this has happened but I feel like I’ve given up :(

And I also keep thinking about other people, like how my family are going to react if I break things off or if his family are going to hate me! Me and my crush used to talk every day - nothing sexual but we just had a laugh and my bf found out by going on my fb and told me to tell him to stop messaging me and we did for a bit but then he started to message me again! But I think I’m thinking of it more now because this guy I’ve got feelings for had told me like he’s not waiting around forever because, fair play, it’s been 8 months. But I don’t want to be that girl that splits up with her bf for another guy :(

Please give me some advice.

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