When I and my wife met we couldn't wait to be with each other. After about six months the sex dropped off. Fair enough, the physical side is not the be-all and end-all. Physical contact dwindled to the point where it became an issue. We went to the local sexual health clinic for counselling. We have been to Relate. We have talked until it is a forbidden subject. We have been together for 28 years and married 13 years ago. At this time, although there have been very occasional , frustrating sexual moments, we have never had sex. I love my wife and she is provably my soulmate. HELP!