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“Lack of intimacy is getting me down”
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I've been in a relationship for 10 years but we have been celibate for 8 years. My partner says he just doesn't have any sex drive. I would try to initiate sex previously but I find it very hard to when he just doesn't show any interest. He's not very good at talking about thongs and he is far less cuddly than I am. I'm finding the lack of intimacy really hard. We still love each other. I've taken care of my health and appearance. He says it's not me, he just doesn't have any kind of sex drive anymore. Any one else in this situation? Any suggestions?

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