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My boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex as often anymore

My boyfriend and I have only been together for about 6 months. Things are moving fast. We live together & are talking about marriage. I am 23 and he is 37. He doesn’t want to have sex as much as he used to and every time I try to talk about it he says he’s not a machine and the mood has to be right. I understand this because I will be in a bad mood and want to have sex and that doesn’t work for him. I am a sex addict and want it at least 3 times a day. But I have settled for once a day. Now that is not working.

He also says he’s not into anything sexually which I think is a lie. I am into BDSM and am a very open person. I feel like he’s into something but won’t tell me about it which is causing him to be less interested in sex. I truly feel this is what happens in relationships and why people cheat. But I want it to work between us I just don’t know how. He doesn’t want to talk about it & gets defensive. He has also told me that sometimes he feels like it’s pressure on him as if it was the first time we ever had sex. What can I do to make this Rey work while getting what I need but also supporting my man?

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