May you please help me out? I don't know what's the problem, maybe it's me overthinking or something else. I'm in a relationship with my partner, and I caught him flirting with girls twice a year. From there I lost trust and I never recovered from that incident. Okay, he has female friends and even now I don't trust him when he's around them, and I hate it when he makes comments about them like giving compliments, sometimes making jokes about them that they're single.
And I told him how I feel about that, but all these things just add up. I just don't trust him when he's around females at all. I did forgive him about the flirting but I just can't get over it. Another thing - we used to post each other on social media but he stopped. I confronted him and he told me that it's not his thing, he doesn't like posting pictures, and yes that's true but my question was why you gave me a wrong idea when we started dating. Why didn't you come out straight? And I stopped posting him as well even though it wasn't easy but I didn't want to look like a fool or be desperate, although I really like posting.
Any suggestions on how I can deal with my situation would be much appreciated. Thank you.