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“We just cannot talk without arguing”
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My fella and I have been together for 8 years and have children together. Over the past 4 years we have be gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sleeping.

I have tried to talk to him, he just balls up into a hedgehog and blames me. We never do anything together not even talk and over the summer I decided for us to separate – the kids are in the middle watching us argue and its killing me.

He is moving out on Friday and I'm the one crying, distraught and sad. He on the other hand is cold, angry and uncommunicative as usual.

What has happened: I have been so open, honest and trying to keep a handle on this. What more could I have done and have I done the right thing.

I am sad for him but why hasn't he made any effort! I need help.

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