For context, my girlfriend and i have been together for about half a year now. We have been very close and friends for a long time and after a lot of obstacles we finally ended up together. There has been a few bumps here and there but for the most part things have been good and happy. We communicate really well and are very comfortable with each other.
She is a big gamer which means she has a lot of guy friends in that community. I am familiar with a lot of them and know them and have no concerns. However for the last 2 months she has been talking to this guy whose group she has been playing with and i dont know him super well. They play every single night, video chat, text on snap very frequently and because of this the amount of time i get with her has been significantly less. I’ve addressed this with her and she made more of an effort to make more time for me.
This past week though thing have just seemed different she told me he attempted to flirt with her and she shut it down. She told me she would stop talking to him all together if that would make me more comfortable. I told her no as i trust her and her judgement. But they just talk constantly and I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to be controlling and make her stop talking to her friend but i overthink a lot and this is just eating at me. She even scrolled through some of their text together with me and I briefly saw her say to him “that’s you:))” and i have no idea what the context is. I love her a lot any suggestions?