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Why is our sex life gone???

I'm 45 and my man is 36. We both look very young for our ages. And we both love sex and you would think that we would have a wonderful sex life but its grown so stale and frigid. I get no sexual attention at all. He is constantly on one of his 5 phones and never even sets them down when I'm trying to give him the hints that I want sex. It's gotten so embarrassing. And when I try to talk to him about it, he gets really mad. I feel like he doesnt want me anymore.

He used to be so much more open with me. He was more affectionate. He used to make me feel like I was the only woman that mattered. Now it's like we hardly know each other. He watches porn and loves porn and I like it too. But when it comes to watching it with me I feel like he doesnt want me in that way. We have been together for almost 5 years and i just wanna know how i can tell if he even wants me anymore. All the signs point to NO but he says that's the absolute opposite. He says he loves me and I'm all he wants. But he never tries to have sex with at all.

Once every 6 months. I put on sexy outfits and dress up in that cosplay stuff and send him pictures of myself. But it gets me nowhere. I have even taken off nights at work to try to get lucky. But still nothing. And he gets so mad when i bring it up. He either feels sick or falls asleep when I be really pushy about giving it up. Why wont he just leave me if he wants something else.

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