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No sex for eight months

We have not had sex since august 20 2020 .he has lots of excuses like he has ed cant get hard . Corna virus . He had family member die . Our cat died . Ect I dont no because he does not try to have sex with me. And he does not sleep with me anymore . He sleeps on the couch. I have asked I have begged . He liked oral but since August nothing i ask him he says no .when I bring it up . He says he had enough .and he is leaving me and bring up anything he brought for us . I have brought him lots of items i never being that up. He also says i am crazy . .if I am cleaning he says I am on crack . The other day I took off my bra . He told me put clothes on and quit acting like a coke horror .I have never been told to cover my boobs up .guys usually beg for me to show them he is on porn alot he does virtual reality porn .

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dizzydez00 | 1
A lot of people don't realize that depression and stress really kill someones sex drive and desire to have sex. Losing a family member and a pet is severe enough to cause ED and it naturally can cause depression. Also the pandemic has caused people so much stress that also stress itself can really kill someone's sex drive. So it isn't you, it is just all those factors that are causing depression and stress. I really think he just needs time to heal from this. I know it's super stressful because I am going through a similar thing with my partner. The best thing you can do is give him his space and time to heal and maybe ask him if he wants to talk to someone such as a therapist, or maybe he just wants to talk to you. But don't make him feel bad for feeling this way and don't try to pressure sex because it will only make things worse. Try to sympathize even if it is hard. I'm sure if you give him his space and give him support he will be back to normal soon enough. Best of luck.
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