So for the last couple of weeks I have been working at this new place, i can't complain about the job but there is an issue. I have a crush on my coworker who is already taken, whose gf also works with us. This guy has shown me interest, but he also tends to his gf and spends lunch with her. I honestly have been talking to him and being flirty, not with my words but with my smile. Honestly i dont even consider smiling being flirtatious, you just can tell that i like him from miles away but im not necessarily making verbal moves. I can't help it, he's my type and to be honest i wasnt trying to hide my feelings even when i knew he was taken. Just because, i dont know i guess i was being selfish. But now that i think about it, maybe i dont want to be the reason why he and his gf break up. I mean it's difficult to find a guy like him, i would feel bad if i was the reason why the other girl loses a good catch like him. An a great relationship shouldn't start like this. Especially i want to avoid him after realizing my coworkers have been treating me differently because they think of me as a homewrecker although i dont think i have done much to deserve that title, it's unfair especially cause no one treats the guy WHO IS ACTUALLY IN THE RELATIONSHIP differently. I just have a crush, which is normal considering how attractive he is as a person. I am a very nice person and have a great moral compass i was just naive this time and didnt realized this couple could really have something good going for them and my existence being a threat isn't cool. What upsets me the most, is my supervisor using my personal feelings to judge me in my professionalism, i did cry a little bit because i work too hard for my image to be damage by a guy that i have tried to avoid too but he keeps showing interest in me. I dont want to be punished for feelings i cant control, but I'll try to avoid more since i wasnt doing a great job before. Do you think im a bad person?

I am a 71yo single attractive female, and I own my house in a semi-affluent neighborhood. How do I tell a man that I will not date anyone who doesn’t drive me in a decent-looking sedan?

So there’s a guy I am pretty close with. We’ve known each other for a few years now and are good friends but there are often times where our relationship does not seems totally platonic. I have feelings for him but he has a gf (it’s been like 4 months since they met and have been dating) but over the course of the time we began hanging out (usually in a group setting) and even still now, he does things that make me think he also has feelings to an extent. It’s frustrating when he gives a lot of physical cues and signs that he is into me but now has a girlfriend. I really don’t want to ruin his relationship or our friendship because I am happy for me but it still hurts. I’m just not entirely sure what to do at this point because I’ve had these feelings for a while but I can’t move past this. I fall for him more every day and don’t see myself moving past this until I never see him again or someone else comes into the picture in my side.

I came out to my best friend 3 days ago, after she left my house. The day after she said she liked me. I said I liked her back ( I did) but now we’re dating and it’s awkward. She takes longer to text me back and I feel clingy. I don’t think she wants us to be together anymore but I really like her. I’ve told her I like her and she said yay. She’s always too busy, you don’t want to break up but I don’t know what to do. Help, we go back to school in 3 weeks :/