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Okay, so I'll start with the story. I met someone who was really new at my job and from the first moment I got to see her I noticed something special that I didn't see in every girl and I was really interested in her at that moment. She also looked at me curiously. After a while, I wanted to meet her at work to get to know her a little bit. And yes, I got to talk to her alone and our conversation was that she told me things she liked to do and I told her that I thought it was really beautiful and interesting. I connected with her again and felt butterflies in my stomach and I didn't understand why. Only after that did I realize that I had a crush on her. She answered me in a really nice and shy way. Then another day I met her again and I got to have a really short conversation with her and it seemed to me that she really wanted to get to know me, so I sent her a message after a long time of hesitation and wrote her, "Hey, how are you?" This is me from work. I wanted to tell you that I was really interested in you and I would love to get to know you better because I think you are really cute and beautiful and talented. I would also like to know if you think of me that way and she replied that it really flattered her and that she would like to wait and see what direction we would take together because it is a workplace and she doesn't want it to be stressful for her. I wrote to her that I understood her and I didn't want it to create any discomfort for her and from then on I already thought that she probably wasn't interested and would just tell me no in a message. It was nicer to hear that I probably wouldn't get hurt, and again after that message I flattered her and again and only in the end I realized that it was a mistake to tell her these things. At first, after a day, I wrote to her that I would like to see her and I'm upset that I don't get to see her at work. Then she wrote to me that she was working nights next week and at that time I was also working nights and then she said that she trusts the time. Two days later I sent her what was going on and how you were and what you were doing and we talked a little bit about how she was and every message she had was really dry and not trying to get to know or be interested in me. There was a day that I was working and I didn't get to see her even though she expected to see me. And I didn't come because I was tired and I didn't want to talk to her when there were a lot of people with me and she was with me where she was, so I sent her a message asking why I didn't come and she wrote me down that she didn't understand where I was and from there we talked a little bit and that's it again, there was another shift that I worked at night but at a different workplace than where she was and she sent me a message asking what was up? I thought you're working tonight and then I replied after half an hour and texted her that I did work but somewhere else and then she texted ahh I understand enjoy it, after a day I texted her again that I would like to talk to her more and then she said if I got to work at the same time she was working then I would reach her and then I just texted her okay and that's it I didn't text or anything after that message and then she saw it and didn't reply for a week and I tried to figure out what was wrong so I got opinions from my friends and they told me that she was probably not into me and that it was better for me to let her go and that I shouldn't have shown her from the beginning that I was attracted to her at all and right from the start she rejected me and I believed them, so I didn't text her and I almost accepted that she and I wouldn't be together anymore because I put so much effort into my thoughts about her and it turns out it wasn't worth it at all because she didn't think of me that way either and I guess I just bothered her and she wasn't interested in what I was saying, and yesterday after a week of her not texting me anything and I didn't see her I chose to listen to my friend who said I should post a picture of my hand and her hand together on my story to show She lost to me and she was really jealous and I didn't want to do it at first because I'm not that kind of person but I realized that I wanted that feeling of knowing that she felt like she missed me and that I was serious and she wasn't so I chose to upload the story without her knowing anything about it or anyone at all except me and my friend, then people from work saw it and started asking who it was and if I had a girlfriend and they were surprised and today I worked the morning shift and she too and I didn't visit her on purpose because I also think I'm not that interested in her after I opened my heart and she just made me think I was just trying... , let's get back to the story so at noon someone else she works with came and when I took her to work she asked me if I had a girlfriend and that was the first thing she asked me and I answered her that I met someone new and then she said she was lucky that she met me and then when she came down I noticed that the second thing she did was call the girl I had a crush on and talked to her outside and I think she showed her the picture I posted and that's it tell me what you think I'm a bit I regret it, but it was due to my ego and self-respect, even though I'm a little interested in her.