My boyfriend and i (both in our early twenties) have been together around 8 months now, we are still very much in love and i’d say are still in the honeymoon phase. He’s never been all that aggressive sexually. i think ive seen porn on his phone in passing but we’ve maybe only ever had sex twice in a row in the very beginning since then we go weeks sometimes even a month without sex. whenever that’s broken it’s always been me to be initiating. he doesn’t have many performances issues… we’ve talked about it a few times before and nothing has changed but in every other way he is an amazing lover what can i do? any advice??