I met someone back in February at a friends party and we hit off straight away everything was perfect we were constantly together or texting each other or talking on facebook anyway we decided to start seeing our friends seperatley as i had either constantly been with him everytime i saw them anyway he suffers from mental illness because of a previous abusive relationship and last week my mum had a go out him for going to see his friends without me on facebook, and now his asked for the relationship to be put on hold as he feels awkward and he is not mentally well at the moment, i agreed but am constantly wondering how long this will take for him to get in touch and whether or not he is going to get back with me as this is my first serious relationship and i dont want to bother him while his not well any suugestions would be helpful?