About 14 years ago I had a very bad relationship with my wife and went to the pub every night and stayed out late and neglected her. She neglected me in the past and went out lots without me. We argued and she removed her wedding ring and would not let me into the bed for many months and had her Friday nights out with the girls and the very odd weekend away with the girls.

I accused my wife but she said it was nothing and that she didn’t do anything. The worrying thing is that she also said that she thought of me as a brother, perhaps this was her way of saying that we had grown apart and was an excuse for her cheating but she insists that she didn’t do anything.