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Hello Everyone, I need your advice on a relationship I’m currently in. My boyfriend and I have been together for 1.5 years in a long-distance relationship. I have always been committed to this relationship and truly want a future together. He is very career-oriented, and while I am also ambitious, he has always preferred someone who matches his level of drive and responsibility. He is in a better position and country with more opportunities. Though we have discussed these differences, he has never fully committed to me. I feel that his uncertainty stems from visa issues, as he has told me that if there are any complications, we won’t be able to move forward. Recently, his family has been looking for potential matches for him, and he received two good profiles of women from the same country as him. He even asked his parents to proceed. When I confronted him about it, he said he felt guilty and wouldn’t have actually gone ahead. But deep down, I feel that if things had worked out with them, he might have considered them seriously. I understand his responsibilities and why he is hesitant, but I can’t help feeling hurt and angry. At the same time, I love him, and leaving is very difficult. I’m really struggling with what to do in this situation—could you please share your thoughts and advice?
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