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“18 years married and my husband has no sex drive”
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Hi everyone, I'm needing some advice here PLEASE I'm 41 years old and my husband is 49. We have been married for 18 years and as every year that goes by we have less sex, I'm lucky to get it every 4 months. Since the beginning my husband hasn't wanted sex as much as my last boyfriends and I just excepted it. The last couple of years he only wants it when he takes drugs but even then he cant get an erection and we have to put porn on and there is no intercourse at all. He has also had problems keeping an erection and it makes me feel like I'm not attractive enough. I love my husband but the lack of sex is really starting to upset me.I don't get any type of affection and its making me want to seek it elsewhere. When we did have sex years ago and at the beginning he would never kiss me and that in itself is so hard for me. I don't want to live a life without any form of touch, I FEEL REALLY LONELY

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