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"Husband needs porn to have sex with me"

I have a person who in every category you can think of is the perfect husband except one. Over the ten years we've been together, he's gone physically cold. Our sex life is dead unless he's recently watched porn. He doesn't know that I know. I thought he was having an affair, so I broke down and stooped to looking at his browsing history. The only time he wants to have sex with me is on days that I can verify he's binged on porn a few hours before.

I know that I'm getting older and I'm never going to look like these girls he looks at. I feel like I'm not much more than his last-stop receptacle after these other girls warmed him up. I'm not frigid, and I feel like the only reason he's not just masturbating after the video is because I pointed out (nicely and maturely) that we should work on our sex life. This is awful for my self-esteem. Any thoughts?

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