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“He chooses porn over me”

I recently caught my boyfriend masturbating to porn. I've asked him before that if he is in the mood I want to help him and I would appreciate it if he came to me first and if I'm really not interested of course he can masturbate but he always chooses porn over me and has never come to me, not once.

Our sex life is almost nonexistent. I have endometriosis so sex is painful most times but it doesn't mean I don't want it. He never tries to turn me on or anything. I'm not unattractive and I have a pretty nice body but he still chooses porn over me. When I caught him I told him how I felt, that it hurt me and I felt betrayed and hurt my feelings. All he said was "I don't see why it would." This hurts me even more because he can't see he's hurt me and believes he's done no wrong. The more he chooses porn over me, the less attracted I am to him. I don't know what to do. Is this normal?

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