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“Boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex”

My boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex with me anymore. The first couple of months of us dating we were all over each other, but now we barely ever have sex. The few times we have he seems to struggle to stay interested in having sex and keeping erect and prefers to just have oral sex instead. I asked him recently why he doesn’t like to have sex and he told me it’s because I ask for it to much, and he enjoys the chase of it. When I asked him to explain he said it’s too hard too and said he just enjoys the lead up towards sex like kissing and things. When I asked how long he likes the lead up he said it could be two minutes to an hour. I just need help understanding what he means and also what i can do to make this better.

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