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I have been in a relationship for one and a half years I am pregnant and due in July. My significant other has other children from other women (which I can handle). I have been battling with my emotions on a subject that has been haunting me for almost a year now. My hunny's ex-wife had been informed that there were bed bugs at her job the middle of last year, well i guess not thinking anything of it until her daughter (his daughter) was sleeping on the couch many months down the rd and woke up with bites all over her. Turns up she found out she had them. Not really taking any action to solve the problem, I found out and being the freak that I am about pests I tried to take every precaution that I could without saying hey well the kids cant come to the house (even though that's what I wanted to say) I didn't want to be considered the bad guy, but I also don't want the bugs at my home with my kids.

Well needless to say i said how I felt numerous of times stating she needed to do something about it before it became out of hand and it spread(but nothing was really done) so now this woman has an infestation I have the bugs because of course the kids as well as her would come over to my house. I don't know how to react or what to do, I don't want my immediate family to get them. I have been spraying and reading on how to take care of the situation, but as soon as i feel like i have it somewhat under control i feel like they are just bringing more over!!!!!!! Help!!!!!

Just some opinions, suggestions would be great. I have not reacted how deep down inside i would like to because i don't care for confrontation i have spoke out in a nice manner but obviously am being ignored by not only her but my boyfriend which is her ex-husband.

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