My wife and I have been together for eight years, and we have a one-year-old boy together. Now is thing, I love my wife very much, I adore her and find her very attractive. I'm always lock and loaded ready for her but thing is, she's never interested... not the even slightest. And she never agrees with me, or make joint decisions. I feel like she's always fighting against me, not sure if this is intentionally or not.
I've spoken to her about these things, and how they are a big deal to me. So much for a big deal, I am prepare to leave as this is not how I pictured the rest of our lives together but nothing has changed. I have asked her, does she still loves me, in love with me and want be with me? She says yes but there's no fun in marriage and I am struggling with is.
I long for her intimacy, closeness and for us to be one in everything, but it feels like I am the only one wanting these feelings. I just feel like the relationship is pointless and worthless... I don't want to be without her and I want to be in my son's life full time, near and close by, I just feel like the lack of fun, intimacy and team work is killing slowly and softly. My question is, am I been unreasonable, am I asking for too much or being unfair?