I'm 50 and have a long distance boyfriend who I adore and who loves me. Our 3 years relationship is great. We are engaged and applying for a prospective marriage visa. As I said we are doing really good however yesterday while making our usual video call he said to me that I looked very tired that he could see this huge bags under my eyes and with that comment I felt very hurt I almost cried, I felt so unwanted old and ugly. I have told him how bad I feel when he tells me about my physical changes due to age:( Is it just me?? Should I not feel this way??? Any advice on this issue would be appreciated