Please help me make sense of this. I am a 33-year-old lady. I am doing well for myself. I have been dating this guy for about a year now. He calls me his wife material and yes, we are talking about marriage. But I discovered something about him like four months into our dating, and that has been an issue for me. My boyfriend likes to go to the club, especially strip clubs every weekend.I find it a very bad habit but he says its just to chill out. That he does not mess with the girls at the club. He has invited me to come with him to the club but I declined.
Last week, he organized a romantic proposal for me at a five-star hotel. It was the best, it was so beautiful. But I declined the proposal even though I accepted the ring. I told him I would only marry him on the condition that he stops going to strip clubs. He said that is not possible, that no one can tell him what to do or what not to do. He said if I am not comfortable with his lifestyle, I should forget about him. Now, I am thinking, should I break up with him or leave him to his bad habit. Apart from the strip club, this guy has been very good to me. What do you suggest I do?