My husband spends no time with me. All his free time he spends flirting and sex chatting with other girls. The only time he spends with me is when we are in the bedroom and then I dont even do it for him. How an I supposed to give my all in the bedroom and give him what he wants if he has no time for me? Every time I try to talk to him about this he turns it around on me and at the end of it all I feel that I have done something wrong. He sometimes even tells them private things that is meant for just us. I feel betrayed and I cant voice this to him as he is not doing anything wrong. So I have to keep to myself and deal with this by myself. I am so frustrated, I dont know what to do anymore....am I really at fault here?